{"id":918,"date":"2019-01-29T10:19:00","date_gmt":"2019-01-29T10:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/amakachika-mbonu.com\/?p=918"},"modified":"2025-05-02T12:59:31","modified_gmt":"2025-05-02T12:59:31","slug":"lets-talk-about-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amakachika-mbonu.com\/nws\/lets-talk-about-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Let’s Talk About Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Lets Talk About Sex \u2013 In Marriage That Is\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

\u2018The Books\u2019 certainly do<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Are holiness, spirituality and sexuality (in marriage) incompatible, and diametrically opposed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

Scripture doesn\u2019t seem to bear this out.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

Sex and sexual love are explored fully, deeply and quite explicitly in the word of God<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

WHAT DO \u2018THE BOOKS\u2019 SAY?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Shula was very excited; her lover was coming home this evening.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

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Sex should be a passionate, passion-filled,\u00a0satisfying, desire-quenching leaving both the husband and wife fully sated.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

The air-conditioning blew softly in the background. The diffusers emitting a musky, sensual fragrance. She had on that little red thing he liked to see her in. She hadn\u2019t always been this confident in her ability to express her feelings -these kind of feelings to him- but they\u2019d been through a lot together. The things he said to her, and wrote to her, they made her dark skin blush just to think about them, like when he said, \u201cI love your\u2026\u201d and \u201cthe way your\u2026\u201d she had always thought her upper thighs were too big, but he said they were\u2026.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

These things he continually said to her had empowered her, made her bolder, given her the confidence in her body, mind, and looks to tell him, \u201csmother me with kisses\u2026all over.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

There he is now, she heard him opening the door to their bedroom. She positioned herself just right and said softly, seductively,<\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u201cWelcome home my darling, come in and\u2026\u201d ( excerpt from,\u00a0<\/em>\u2018How To Get Your Wife To Swing From The Chandelier In A Red Neglig\u00e9e: A Biblical Perspective\u2019<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>This is my rendering of the verses from\u00a0Song of Solomon 1:2; 4:16; 7:1-9<\/strong>\u00a0in today\u2019s\u00a0parlance.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>\u201cSEX is not a word to be whispered and sniggered about quietly so that no one else hears. It is a natural thing, without which the human specie would soon be extinct\u201d (excerpt from, \u2018How To Get Your Wife To Swing From The Chandelier In A Red Neglig\u00e9e: A Biblical Perspective\u2019)<\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u2026and NEWSFLASH!!! GOD knows all about it, He knew each time Adam knew Eve\u00a0Genesis 4:1, 25<\/strong>; when Cain knew his wife\u00a0Genesis 4:17<\/strong>; when Abraham knew Sarah,\u00a0Genesis 21:2.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n

He created it, and because He loves us provided guidelines for it.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>According to \u2018The Books\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Sex should be a passionate, passion-filled,\u00a0 satisfying, desire-quenching leaving both the husband and wife fully sated. I say this because \u2018The Books\u2019 describe sex as a burning desire that can be pleasurably \u2018dealt\u2019 with within marriage.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

1 Corinthians 7:9<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0\u2026for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Sex is sacred, within the confines of marriage<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Hebrews 13:4<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0\u2026the marriage bed undefiled [by immorality or by any sexual sin]\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n

In marriage the mans body is the wife\u2019s to derive pleasure from, and the woman\u2019s body, the husbands for that same reason. Neither party should deny the other this pleasure, it is a \u2018due\u2019 (owed) benevolence,\u00a01 Corinthians 7:3-4<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence:and likewise also the husband unto the wife.\u2018The Books\u2019 describe doing such as fraud<\/em><\/p>\n\n

1 Corinthians 7:5\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>Defraud ye no one the other\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>There is and should be a physical joining and union of bodies in marriage. The word of God in\u00a0Genesis 2:24<\/strong>\u00a0 says, \u201cTherefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife:and they shall become one flesh.\u201d Refers to this physical union in,<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Mark 10:8<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh and yet again in,\u00a0Ephesians 5:31<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cFor this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and that two shall be one flesh.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

And in case anyone is of the opinion that this \u2018one flesh\u2019 is just symbolic when people are joined as man and wife, the Word talks about the perverse, converse aberration of this when a man\u2026 or woman joins themselves to a harlot,\u00a01 Corinthians 6:16<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>Sex does, and should involve various different body parts, including the mouth, active, and actively vocalizing\u00a0intimate things.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u2018The Books\u2019 are not reticent, or guarded, shielded or prudish, about this beautiful expression of love in marriage that God Himself created, rather it is expressed quite graphically\u00a0Proverbs 5:19<\/strong>\u00a0\u201c\u2026let her (your wife\u2019s)\u00a0bosom (<\/u>breasts Christians)<\/u>\u00a0satisfy you at all times, and always be\u00a0transported<\/u>\u00a0with\u00a0delight<\/u>\u00a0in her love\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Song of Solomon 4:16 \u201d\u2026blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden and eat his pleasant fruits\u201d<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>Song of Solomon 7:7-8\u00a0This thy stature is like to a palm tree<\/u>, and thy\u00a0breasts<\/u>\u00a0to\u00a0clusters of grapes<\/u>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

I said,\u00a0I will go up\u00a0<\/u>to the palm tree,\u00a0I will take hold<\/u>\u00a0of the boughs thereof: now also\u00a0thy breasts shall be as clusters of the vine<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n\n

All this and more is given by God to be enjoyed ONLY in the marriage union. It is reminiscent of the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, Genesis 2: 16- 17 And the Lord God commanded the man saying, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou majestic freely eat.\u00a0BUT\u2026<\/u><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n

\u00a0<\/em>SEX is godly, it is enjoyable, sating, at times mind-blowing, taking one to pleasurable heights of ecstasy\u00a0BUT\u2026\u00a0<\/strong>within the boundaries of marriage.\u00a0 Adam and Eve ignored this instruction to their peril, and we are suffering the results of this to this day,\u00a0Romans 5:12\u00a0<\/strong>Wherefore as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n

So, are you married? Have you had any good sex lately? If not, go have some, its allowed, and encouraged by the ultimate authority, God.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Guys pre-prepare her for tips get my book\u00a0<\/em>\u2018How To Get Your Wife To Swing From The Chandelier In A Red Neglig\u00e9e: A Biblical Perspective\u2019<\/a>**<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Ladies, cut him some slack, learn to express what gets you ready for him by reading my book too.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

I\u2019d love to hear you comments on this article, so do get in touch, amaka@amakachika-mbonu.com<\/em><\/p>\n\n

** The book, \u2018How To Get Your Wife To Swing From The Chandelier In A Red Neglig\u00e9e: A Biblical Perspective is also available on\u00a0<\/em>Amazon Kindle<\/a>\u00a0iBooks<\/a>\u00a0Nook\u00a0<\/a>Konga<\/a>\u00a0Okada Books<\/a>\u00a0and my website\u00a0<\/em>Amaka Chika-Mbonu<\/a><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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